二十一世纪大学英语读写教程学习笔记（原文）——2 - Conversational Ballgames（对话风格与球类运动）

Unit 2 - Conversational Ballgames（对话风格与球类运动）

Conversational Ballgames

Nancy Masterson Sakamoto

After I was married and had lived in Japan for a while, my Japanese gradually improved to the point where I could take part in simple conversations with my husband, his friends, and family. And I began to notice that often, when I joined in, the others would look startled, and the conversation would come to a halt. After this happened several times, it became clear to me that I was doing something wrong. But for a long time, I didn't know what it was.

Finally, after listening carefully to many Japanese conversations, I discovered what my problem was. Even though I was speaking Japanese, I was handling the conversation in a Western way.

Japanese-style conversations develop quite differently from western-style conversations. And the difference isn't only in the languages. I realized that just as I kept trying to hold western-style conversations even when I was speaking Japanese, so were my English students trying to hold Japanese-style conversations even when they were speaking English. We were unconsciously playing entirely different conversational ballgames.

A western-style conversation between two people is like a game of tennis. If I introduce a topic, a conversational ball, I expect you to hit it back. If you agree with me, I don't expect you simply to agree and do nothing more. I expect you to add something — a reason for agreeing, another example, or a remark to carry the idea further. But I don't expect you always to agree. I am just as happy if you question me, or challenge me, or completely disagree with me. Whether you agree or disagree, your response will return the ball to me.

And then it is my turn again. I don't serve a new ball from my original starting line. I hit your ball back again from where it has bounced. I carry your idea further, or answer your questions or objections, or challenge or question you. And so the ball goes back and forth.

If there are more than two people in the conversation, then it is like doubles in tennis, or like volleyball. There's no waiting in line. Whoever is nearest and quickest hits the ball, and if you step back, someone else will hit it. No one stops the game to give you a turn. You're responsible for taking your own turn and no one person has the ball for very long.

A Japanese-style conversation, however, is not at all like tennis or volleyball, it's like bowling. You wait for your turn, and you always know your place in line. It depends on such things as whether you are older or younger, a close friend or a relative stranger to the previous speaker, in a senior or junior position, and so on.

The first thing is to wait for your turn, patiently and politely. When your moment comes, you step up to the starting line with your bowling ball, and carefully bowl it. Everyone else stands back, making sounds of polite encouragement. Everyone waits until your ball has reached the end of the lane, and watches to see if it knocks down all the pins, or only some of them, or none of them. Then there is a pause, while everyone registers your score.

Then, after everyone is sure that you are done, the next person in line steps up to the same starting line, with a different ball. He doesn't return your ball. There is no back and forth at all. And there is always a suitable pause between turns. There is no rush, no impatience.

No wonder everyone looked startled when I took part in Japanese conversations. I paid no attention to whose turn it was, and kept snatching the ball halfway down the alley and throwing it back at the bowler. Of course the conversation fell apart, I was playing the wrong game.

This explains why it can be so difficult to get a western-style discussion going with Japanese students of English. Whenever I serve a volleyball, everyone just stands back and watches it fall. No one hits it back. Everyone waits until I call on someone to take a turn. And when that person speaks, he doesn't hit my ball back. He serves a new ball. Again, everyone just watches it fall. So I call on someone else. This person does not refer to what the previous speaker has said. He also serves a new ball. Everyone begins again from the same starting line, and all the balls run parallel. There is never any back and forth.

Now that you know about the difference in the conversational ballgames, you may think that all your troubles are over. But if you have been trained all your life to play one game, it is no simple matter to switch to another, even if you know the rules. Tennis, after all, is different from bowling.

New Words

conversational

a. 会话的，交谈的

conversation

n. an informal talk in which people exchange news, feelings, and thoughts 谈话；会谈

ballgame

n. any game played with a ball 球类活动

gradually

ad. in a way that happens or develops slowly over a long period of time 逐渐

startle

vt. make suddenly surprised or slightly shocked 使惊吓，使惊奇

halt

n. a stop or pause 停住，停止

v. stop （使）停住，（使）停止

handle

vt. deal with 处理，应付

unconsciously

ad. not consciously 无意识地，不知不觉地

challenge

vt. 向…挑战；对…质疑

n. 挑战；质疑

disagree

vi. (with) have or express a different opinion from sb. else 有分歧，不同意

response

n. an answer; (an) action done in answer 回答；回应；反应

original

a. first; earliest 起初的；原来的

bounce

vi. (of a ball) spring back or up again from the ground or another surface （球）弹起，（球）反弹

objection

n. sth. that one says to show that he /she opposes or disapproves of an action, idea, etc. 反对，异议

forth

ad. forward; out 向前；向外

responsible

a. having the job or duty of looking after sb. or sth., so that one can be blamed if things go wrong 须负责的，有责任的

bowling

n. 保龄球

relative

a. having a particular quality when compared with sth. else 相对的，比较的

n. a member of one's family; relation 亲属；亲戚

a. coming before in time or order 先前的，以前的

junior

a. of lower rank or position; younger 级别或地位较低的，年资较浅的；年少的，较年幼的

bowl

vt. 把（球）投向球瓶

lane

n. 球道；车道；胡同，小巷

n. 球瓶；大头针，别针

vt. record 记录，登记

suitable

a. 合适的；适当的

impatience

n. 不耐烦；急躁

snatch

vt. get hold of (sth.) hastily; take in a hurry, esp. forcefully 抓住；夺，夺得

alley

n. 小巷，小街，胡同；球道

bowler

n. 投球手

apart

ad. into pieces 成碎片

parallel

a. running side by side but never getting nearer to or further away from each other 平行的，并列的

switch

vi. change 改变，转移

Phrases and Expressions

Join in

take part in (an activity) 参加，参与

come to a halt

stop 停住，停止；停顿

even if/though

in spite of the fact that; no matter whether 即使；尽管

just as

正如；同样地

back and forth

来回地，反复地

and so on

and other things of this kind 等等

knock down

make (sth.) fall by hitting or pushing it 击倒；撞倒

fall apart

break; fall to pieces; end in failure 破裂；破碎；以失败告终

call on /upon

formally ask (sb.) to do sth. 号召；请求

refer to

mention; speak about 谈到，提及

after all

when all is said or done 毕竟

Proper Name

Nancy Masterson Sakamoto

南希·马斯特森·坂本

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