二十一世纪大学英语读写教程学习笔记（原文）——5 - The Language of Compromise（妥协的语言）

Unit 5 - The Language of Compromise（妥协的语言）

The Language of Compromise

Leslie Dunkling

"Let me give you one piece of advice," I said to Ted and Mary just before they got married a few years ago. "If you want to stay happily married, always be prepared to compromise. When you have different opinions about something, you each give way a little. You take the middle course. That is compromise." And I'm glad to say that the young couple seemed to take that advice.

I remember when they took their first holiday together. Ted wanted to do something energetic, because he didn't usually get much exercise during the year. Mary's job meant that she was on her feet most of the time. All she wanted to do was lie in the sun. Ted hated the idea of lying on a beach; Mary hated the idea of being too active. They compromised, and took their holiday in mid-summer, high in the Alps. Mary was able to lie in the sun by the hotel swimming pool, while Ted went off for long walks in the mountains with a group of hikers. In the evening they met at the hotel, both content with their day, happy to eat a leisurely meal together and dance a little afterwards.

They compromised over everything and they were very happy.

To complete their happiness, they had a baby when they had been married for three years—a son. But that, strangely, was when the problem arose. They had to name their son, of course, and each had a name in mind; not the same name, unfortunately. It seemed that a situation had arisen where compromise was impossible. Ted wanted to call their son Robert, Mary wanted to call him Lawrence. How can you compromise with names like that? No, this time one of them would have to give way, it seemed. There would have to be a winner, and a loser. That was how they saw things, at least.

Mary told me all about it when I called at the hospital two days after the baby's birth.

"Ted wants to call him Robert," Mary said, "because there's a tradition in his family. The eldest son is always Robert or Edward. His father was Robert, his grandfather Edward, his great-grandfather Robert, and so on."

"That seems reasonable," I said.

"I don't want my son to be named after someone in the family," Mary said. "He's a unique individual, and I want him to have a name that no one else in the family has had. I want to call my son Lawrence."

"That seems reasonable, too," I said.

"Everyone's been giving me advice," Mary said. Then she told me who had given her advice, and what advice she had been given, (but not in the same order). I had to guess who gave what advice. Maybe you'd like to try to do that as well?

These were the people:

1) Uncle Fred, who was a painter, and liked vivid colours.

2) Aunt Sybil, who spent every spare minute in her garden.

3) Cousin John, who spent far too much of his time at horse races and simply couldn't resist a gamble.

4) Mary's friend, Sue, who was very active in the Women's Liberation Movement.

5) Ted's brother David, an actor with a high opinion of himself.

6) Mary's father, a music professor.

7) Mary's mother, who loved Shakespeare.

8) Mary's friend, Catherine, known to be rather snobbish.

Here, in a different order, is the advice they gave Mary:

a) "Spin a coin, and decide that way."

b) "David's rather a nice name. That would be a good compromise."

c) "Tell your husband that you had the child so you have the right to choose his name."

d) "I've always liked the names Johann Sebastian."

e) "Call him William. He'll be a sweet William. What a pity you didn't have a girl. There are such lovely names for girls — Heather, Rosemary, Lily, Fern, Daisy."

f) "He's got blond hair. You could call him Boyd — which means yellow."

g) "Charles is rather a refined name, don't you think? Not Robert, though, or Lawrence. Too ordinary, my dear."

h) "Hamlet would make an unusual, but attractive name."

Well, I soon sorted out who suggested what, then I gave my own advice, "Compromise!"

"How?" said Mary.

"In the same way as my parents," I said. "My father felt that I should be named after his father, and my mother felt the same way about naming me after her father. So, I'm named after both of them."

"You mean, they were both called Samuel?" said Mary.

"No. One was George, the other was Albert. Samuel is the compromise. I'm named George Albert Samuel, but called Samuel."

And so it was that my nephew was named Robert William Lawrence, but is called Lawrence.

New Words

energetic

a. full of energy 精力旺盛的，充满活力的

hiker

n. a person who travels about the country, esp. on foot 徒步旅行者

content

a. (with) satisfied with what one has; not wanting more 满意的；满足的

leisurely

a. relaxed; without hurrying 从容的；不慌不忙的

arise (arose, arisen)

vi. happen; appear 出现；呈现

tradition

n. a custom or belief that the people in a particular group or society have practiced or held for a long time 传统

unique

a. considered unusual; being the only one of its type 独特的，独一无二的

individual

n. a person 个人；个体

a. single; separate 个人的；个别的；单独的

painter

n. a person who paints pictures 画家

gamble

n. a risky action or decision that one takes in the hope of gaining money, success, etc. 赌博

v. play cards or other games for money 赌博；打赌

snobbish

a. 势利的

spin (spun)

vt. turn round and round fast 使旋转

blond

a. 1. (of hair) light-coloured （头发）金黄色的；

2.（人）白肤金发碧眼的

refined

a. (of a person, his behaviour, etc.) having or showing education, gentleness of manners 文雅的，优美的

nephew

n. the son of one's brother or sister 侄，甥

Phrases and Expressions

give way

yield 让步，屈服

take the middle course

take a course of action which is a compromise between two extremes 采取折中办法

be on one's feet

be standing or walking 站立着

go off

leave; set off 离开；出发

have ... in mind

想到，考虑到；记得

call at

make a short visit at 短访，访问

name after

give sb. the same name as 以…的名字（为…）取名

with a high /low /good /bad opinion of

thinking well /badly of 对…评价高 / 低（好 / 不好）

sort out

separate from a large group; put in good order; set straight, make clear 拣出；整理；弄清楚

Proper Names

Leslie Dunkling

莱斯莉·邓克林（人名）

the Alps

阿尔卑斯山脉（欧洲中南部）

Lawrence

劳伦斯（男子名）

Edward

爱德华（男子名）

Fred

弗雷德（男子名）

Sybil

西比尔（女子名）

Sue

苏（女子名）

Shakespeare

莎士比亚（1564 - 1616，英国剧作家、诗人）

Catherine

凯瑟琳（女子名）

Johann Sebastian

约翰·塞巴斯蒂安（人名）

Heather

希瑟（女子名）

Rosemary

罗斯玛丽（女子名）

Fern

弗恩（女子名）

Daisy

黛茜（女子名）

Hamlet

汉姆雷特（莎士比亚同名剧作中的男主人公）

Samuel

萨缪尔（男子名）

Albert

阿尔伯特（男子名）

参考资料：

21世纪大学英语读写教程第一册 Unit05_大学教材听力 - 可可英语

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