总觉得，特定环境下，他或者她，这个称呼是有一些暧昧的。比如我的前同事M，跟她男朋友刚相亲认识的时候，跟我说起，总是那个人那个人的称呼，一副局外人的架势。后来，他们熟悉了，代号改成那个谁。前几天见她，就一口一个他的说。我心里明白‘他’是谁，故意逗她，问：他是谁啊？她说：就是那个谁。我继续问：哪个啊？一副正儿八经的疑惑表情。她说：就是那个......。半天也没想出该怎么说，很难为情。抬头看到我一脸坏笑的看着她，就急了：你这家伙，讨厌！她告诉我，他又跟她提起明年结婚的事情了，她跟他说：太早了吧。我就笑，前些时候她跟我说起他提结婚时候自己的反映还是莫名惊诧，现在已经不惊诧了。看起来，八九不离十他就是她的他了。

ARE YOU THE ONE——Timo Tolkki
 
Are you the one?
The traveller in time who has come
To heal my wounds to lead me to the sun
To walk this path with me until the end of time

Are you the one?
Who sparkles in the night like fireflies
Eternity of evening sky
Facing the morning eye to eye

Are you the one?
Who"d share this life with me
Who"d dive into the sea with me

Are you the one?
Who"s had enough of pain
And doesn"t wish to feel the shame, anymore

Are you the one?
Are you the one?
Who's love is like a flower that needs rain
To wash away the feeling of pain
Which sometimes can lead to the chain of fear

Are you the one?
To walk with me in garden of stars
The universe, the galaxies and Mars
The supernova of our love is true

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